Remove profile from dating sites
No need to have an uncomfortable “Why is your profile up after two months? She’s waiting for you to make a commitment to be a boyfriend. Currently, this female happens to be seeing someone and in the exact same position.
And, truth be told, I am not sure if we are both checking on each other and prolonging the chase or not.
Doesn’t mean you don’t want to see her, just means you’re looking to trade up. You’ll wish her the best of luck in her search and you’ll both move on to greener pastures. As far as I was concerned, going on a bunch of dates would only reinforce why she should be exclusive with me. Now if you take down your profile and she say anything, you might want to step up your efforts to see her more. The good thing is that there’s no downside to pushing things forward.
I am an old-fashioned, of sorts, and believe that any man should take the lead- right or wrong this is where my beliefs lie.
And since the gentleman I am dating has not mentioned it, I do not want to limit my options for fear that he is dating many different people.
The best way to see this clearer is to flip the situation over. She’ll either think that’s sweet and offer to remove her profile, or she’ll remind you that you’re just “seeing each other” and that she’s not ready to be exclusive. The reason her profile is still up is basically one of the below: 1) She’s playing it cool and trying not to act needy. I dumped the first two and instantly took down my profile for #3. Of course, such an admission can be a little intimidating for someone you’ve known for a week.
If some girl is into you, but you’re not into her, you’re gonna keep browsing online. However, if she refuses to be Miss Right Now and makes it clear that she’ll accept nothing less than a commitment, that’s okay. She’s waiting for you to make a commitment to be a boyfriend. I did this three years ago and it worked perfectly. Which is why I reassured her that she didn’t have to remove her profile. And if she wanted to go out with twenty other JDate guys before taking her profile down, she could.
Rest assured, though, in my case as long as I see his active I will continue to be active.